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Stop ignoring red flags with the Dating with Discernment Method ™

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Hello Sister, I'm Alexis.

I help divorcées stop ignoring red flags and start dating healthy men.

My coaching is for divorcées who are...

Ready to stop ignoring red flags.
Fed up with feeling confused, used, and abused.
Determined to differentiate healthy vs. indifferent vs. narcissistic men.
Learning how to say 'NO' and develop stronger boundaries.
Building self-trust and listening to their intuition.
Eager to make lifestyle changes and take better care of themselves.
Committed to creating daily practices that attract healthy men.
Willing to believe that good men do exist.

If this sounds like you, you'll love the Dating With Discernment Method ™!

To get you started, I'm gifting you The 7 Dating Rules To Avoid A Narcissist,

which provides an easy-to-follow, step-by-step guide you can implement today!

Free Guide!

Here's the hard truth...

You'll attract three types of men: healthy, indifferent, and narcissistic, and it’s your responsibility to know the difference.

The problem is that confident, empowered, intelligent women like yourself make choices that diminish their ability to see red flags.

Unfortunately, indifferent and narcissistic men intentionally date these types of women because they are easier to manipulate.

A woman who is dating with discernment can differentiate between healthy, indifferent, and narcissistic men from how they ask her out.

So, what is discernment?

Discernment is the skill of perceiving, understanding, and judging things clearly, especially in unclear or complex situations.

If you want to be this woman, you're in the right place!

The Dating With Discernment Method ™ is designed to teach you to trust yourself, understand men, and recognize red flags before your first date.

This three-month program focuses on the three pillars of dating with discernment: Trust Yourself, Understanding Men, and Dating With Discernment.

Depending on your package, you'll receive weekly or bi-monthly 1:1 coaching calls, a program outline with homework assignments, on-call text support, and access to a library of resources for your unique story, challenges, and blocks.

Are you ready to stop ignoring red flags and start dating healthy men?

I'm Ready!

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My Dating After Divorce Story

I got married at 36 because I ignored red flags and was stuck in a toxic relationship.

However, I didn’t realize it until a few days after my marriage ended...

I had just completed child support paperwork at the county office while nursing my 2-year-old son with tears streaming down my face.

I felt dizzy as I stepped onto the sidewalk; my heart was racing, and my vision blurred.

Then it hit me: I DID THIS.

I realized that I was not a victim.

I ignored red flags from the start, and THIS was my rock bottom - I was a 39-year-old coach getting divorced with a toddler in tow.

My family lineage is saturated with dysfunctional relationships, and I had chosen the perfect partner to duplicate what was modeled for me.

I knew I had to learn how to manage my patterns better and make smarter choices when dating after divorce if I didn't want to end up here again.

However, healing isn't linear, and a few years later, I unknowingly got engaged to a narcissist.

I thought I had it all figured out with my dating frameworks and tools, but I had no idea that a narcissist would make red flags look green. I had no idea what love-bombing and future faking was. I just thought I was really special and had found The One. But this is how the manipulation begins, and it's almost impossible to leave once you're in a relationship with a narcissist because Stockholm syndrome sets in.

After 1.5 years of emotional, psychological, mental, and financial abuse, this relationship ended. I spent time working with a therapist and putting my life back together. Once the dust settled, I knew I had a responsibility to help other divorcées never experience what I just did.

Dating after divorce now requires an entirely new set of rules to discern between the three types of men you'll generally encounter: healthy, indifferent, and narcissistic. To address this, I've developed the Dating With Discernment Method ™ so you can discern between these three types of men and recognize red or green flags before your first date.

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