3 Things I've Learned About Dating After Divorce
When my marriage ended I experienced an internal struggle. Part of me wanted to immediately run into the arms of another man for comfort...
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| Divorcée DATING COACH
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Hi Sister, I'm Alexis.
A dating coach for divorcées who want to reclaim authenticity and attract a
compatible partner.
Are you ready too...
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Discover who you are now that you're divorced.
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Feel whole, complete, and content in this new chapter.
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Stop chasing or avoiding new love?
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Enjoy dating after divorce?
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Attract a compatible partner who cherishes you.
If you answered YES to any of these questions, receive the free Dating After Divorce guide. This will begin your journey towards reclaiming authenticity and attracting a compatible partner.
Sister, here's the hard truth...
Dating after divorce is about finding your soul…and maybe your soul mate.
There are no secret dating formulas that will guarantee you'll meet your person and never experience heartbreak and loss again.
The only guarantee is that you’re in a long-term relationship with yourself.
The catch is that you're hard-wired for connection and intimacy, and it's only natural to crave a healthy, sustainable relationship.
But you lost yourself in your previous marriage and don’t want to do that again.
You either:
A) Jump back into a new relationship while unclear about who you are and repeat the same dysfunctional relationship story as before.
B) Reclaim your authenticity and attract a compatible partner to create a healthy sustainable relationship.
If you're reading this, it's because you want to choose path B.
The Dating After Divorce program will guide you through a 9-step process where you'll reclaim your authenticity, discover dating with discernment practices, and attract a compatible partner.
My transformational story
I got married at 36 because I was scared to be alone.
However, I didn’t realize this until a few days after my marriage ended. I had just completed child support paperwork at the CSS office while nursing my 2-year-old son (and crying).
As I stepped onto the sidewalk I felt dizzy, my heart was racing and my vision was blurry. Then it hit me:
I DID THIS.
I realized that I was not a victim of my marriage.
My family lineage was saturated with dysfunctional relationships. I had simply chosen the perfect partner to duplicate what was modeled for me.
And THIS was my rock bottom - I was a 39-year-old coach getting divorced, with a toddler in tow.
At that moment I had an epiphany: if this was my story then I could change it. It was no longer about ‘us’ or what ‘he did.' My focus was on taking accountability for what I brought into the marriage and moving forward.
So, with tears in my eyes, I released my ex from being responsible for my pain and let him go.
Moments later I felt a surge of intense clarity. I was reconnecting with my authentic self after years of being stuck in toxic patterns and self-abandonment.
This was the breakthrough moment that shifted everything and catapulted me into my transformational divorce journey.
As a coach with 2 decades of experience in the personal development industry, I turned my epiphany into The Dating After Divorce Program ™.
The 12-week program focuses on how to stop chasing love, reclaim your authenticity, and attract a high-caliber man that aligns with your core values.
Four and half years later, I am thrilled to share that I am recently engaged to an amazing, high-caliber man!
Now it’s your turn!
take the first step
It’s no accident that you’ve found yourself on my website...
It's likely because you don’t want to make the same mistake that so many divorcees do and you're searching for support.
I know you're story because it was once mine...
If this resonates, it means that you are at a pivotal moment in your life and ready for coaching.
Let's chat.
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