Hi Sister, I'm Alexis.
A dating coach for divorcées who want to end the cycle of self-abandonment and feel clear, confident, and comfortable when dating after divorce.
My coaching is for you if you are ready too...
Be cherished for who you are.
Quit ignoring red flags and dating down.
Rebuild self-trust and listen to your intuition.
Lean into the loneliness so you don't settle.
Focus on the facts of who he is, not the fantasy of whom you want him to be.
Create daily practices that maintain your well-being and authenticity.
Develop boundaries that you'll uphold when dating.
Enjoy dating, which might lead to a healthy, sustainable relationship!
If you answered YES to any of these questions, the free
Dating After Divorce guide is for you!
It will give you personal development tools and techniques that will help you break the cycle of self-abandonment so you can enjoy dating after divorce.
Here's the hard truth...
Dating after divorce isn't about who you date but how you date.
If you abandon yourself by compromising your authenticity, it doesn't matter if he's high-caliber or a narcissist - you're going to suffer.
Because the pain of self-abandonment is far worse than being rejected or alone.
The problem is that, as women, we tend to rush the dating process because we become seduced by the fantasy of a good love story.
We start pretending to be someone we're not and create an attachment to a man before we properly vet him for compatibility.
We do this because we naturally desire to be chosen, provided for, and protected.
I've done it...and even got engaged!
The good news is that the moment we admit that our intuition told us it wasn't a good fit but we ignore it, it is powerful!
That is the first step in ending the cycle of self-abandonment.
The next step is rebuilding self-trust and authenticity with The Dating After Divorce Method ™.
It's a 90-day program that will guide you through a 9-step process where you identify your self-abandonment triggers and learn how to manage them with personal development tools and techniques.
In addition, you'll learn dating with discernment practices that will help you maintain authenticity to be the leader of your love life and enjoy dating after divorce!
My Transformational Divorce
I got married at 36 because I was scared to be alone.
However, I didn’t realize this until a few days after my marriage ended. I had just completed child support paperwork at the CSS office while nursing my 2-year-old son (and crying).
As I stepped onto the sidewalk, I felt dizzy, my heart was racing, and my vision was blurry. Then it hit me:
I DID THIS.
I realized that I was not a victim of my marriage.
My family lineage was saturated with dysfunctional relationships. I had chosen the perfect partner to duplicate what was modeled for me.
And THIS was my rock bottom - I was a 39-year-old coach getting divorced with a toddler in tow.
I had an epiphany at that moment: if this was my story, I could change it. It was no longer about ‘us’ or what ‘he did.' I focused on taking accountability for what I brought into the marriage and moving forward.
So, with tears in my eyes, I released my ex from being responsible for my pain and let him go.
Moments later, I felt a surge of intense clarity. I was reconnecting with my authentic self after years of being stuck in toxic patterns of self-abandonment.
This breakthrough moment shifted everything and catapulted me into my transformational divorce journey.
As a coach with two decades of experience in the personal development industry, I turned my epiphany into Dating After Divorce Method ™.
A 90-day program that will guide you through a 9-step process where you'll discover your self-abandonment triggers and how to manage them with personal development tools and techniques. In addition, you’ll learn dating with discernment practices that will help you maintain authenticity to be the leader of your love life.
TAKE THE FIRST STEP
It’s no accident that you’ve found yourself on my website...
It's likely because you don’t want to make the same mistake as so many divorcées, and you're searching for support.
I know your story because it was once mine. You don't have to abandon yourself to be deeply loved!
If this resonates, you are at a pivotal moment and ready for coaching.