DIVORCE IS HEALING
For Women who reclaim their Sovereignty.
I know this is a shocking concept...
I get it because when my marriage ended I was at rock-bottom. Plus, my parents are divorced, and that sh*t definitely wasn't healing. But that's because they didn't have the life-changing breakthrough that I did, which birthed the 5 C's of Sovereignty formula and the 4 Seasons of Divorce program.
Integrating these tools into my process created the transformational divorce journey that anchored personal sovereignty and began to heal my core wounding.
And now I'm going to share these tools with you...
Each offering guides you through a season of divorce, providing the emotional and logistical resources you need to navigate this transition and reclaim your personal sovereignty!
I got married at 36 because I was scared to be alone.
But I didn’t realize this until a few days after my marriage ended when I walked out of the social services office. I had just completed paperwork while nursing my 2-year-old son, with tears running down my face. When I stepped onto the sidewalk I felt dizzy, my heart was racing, my vision was blurry, and then it hit me: I DID THIS.
I realized that I was not a victim. My entire story was driven by codependency and this was my rock bottom: I was 39, painfully dependent on my spouse and getting a DIVORCE, with a toddler in tow.
In that moment I had an epiphany: if this is my story then I can change it. This was no longer about ‘we’ or ‘us’ or what ‘he did’. It was about taking absolute responsibility for myself. So, with tears in my eyes, I released my ex from being responsible for my pain and let him go...
Moments later I felt a surge of energy and intense clarity because I was reconnecting with my personal sovereignty after years of seeking external validation (and suffering because of it). THIS was the breakthrough moment that shifted my paradigm and catapulted me into my transformational divorce journey.
As a coach, with 2 decades of experience in the personal development industry, I knew that reclaiming sovereignty during a divorce would be challenging. To address it, I developed the 5 C's of Sovereignty ™ formula and the 4 Seasons of Divorce ™ program. After applying these tools to my own journey and having extremely successful results, I began offering this coaching model to help other women.
I refuse to accept the archaic narrative that divorcee's are destined to be bitter, broke, lonely, and resentful! It's been a few years now and I am absolutely in LOVE with my life, and the work that I do. I appreciate my story, feel complete with my past and I'm anchored by my personal sovereignty. My life is deeply fulfilling and it feels like this is just beginning...
Now it's your turn!
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