Privacy and terms

Last updated August 2026. Plain English on purpose.

What I collect

If you give me your email address, I store it with Kit, the email platform this site runs on, along with your first name if you gave me one. That's it. I don't collect anything else, I don't sell or rent your address to anyone, and I don't share it outside the tools required to send you email.

What I send

The thing you asked for, and occasional emails about the science behind this work and what I'm publishing. Every email has an unsubscribe link and it works immediately. If you'd rather be removed entirely, email me at alexis.rosenbaum@gmail.com and I'll delete your record.

Purchases

Payments are processed by Stripe. I never see or store your card details. Digital products are delivered as an instant download, and because of that they're non-refundable once downloaded. If something goes wrong with delivery, email me and I'll fix it.

Cookies and analytics

This site sets one small piece of local storage so the signup box doesn't reappear after you've seen it. There is no advertising tracking on this site.

What this work is, and isn't

Dating With Discernment is education. It is not therapy, medical advice, or mental health treatment, and I'm not a licensed clinician. Nothing here diagnoses or treats any condition. If you're dealing with trauma, abuse, or anything clinical, please work with a licensed professional. I'll always say so when something needs a practitioner in the room.

Contact

Alexis A. Rosenbaum, Grass Valley, California. alexis.rosenbaum@gmail.com